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Salary Negotiation14 min read · May 2025

Negotiating a Raise 2025

How to ask for a pay rise and actually get it — timing, scripts, data, and what to do when your manager says no.

The 5-step raise negotiation framework

1
Build your case before the conversation

Document your achievements for the past 6–12 months. Quantify impact wherever possible: revenue generated, costs saved, projects delivered, scope expanded. This is your evidence base — not your opinion of your performance.

2
Research market rate

Use Glassdoor, LinkedIn Salary, Levels.fyi (tech), and industry salary surveys to establish what the market pays for your role, level, and location. You need a number backed by data, not just a feeling you're underpaid.

3
Request a dedicated conversation — don't ambush

Book time with your manager specifically for a compensation conversation. Don't spring it at the end of a 1:1. 'I'd like to set up 20 minutes to discuss my compensation — would next Tuesday work?' signals professionalism and lets your manager prepare.

4
State your ask clearly and anchor high

Open with a specific number, not a range. 'Based on my research and what I've delivered this year, I'm asking for a 15% increase to $X.' Ranges let the other side anchor to the bottom. State the rationale: achievements + market data.

5
Handle objections without backing down immediately

If they say 'now isn't a good time,' ask when the right time is and get it in writing. If they say 'the budget is frozen,' ask what would need to change for this to be revisited. Don't accept a soft no as a permanent no.

Word-for-word raise negotiation scripts

Standard raise request

"I'd like to talk about my compensation. Over the past year, I [specific achievement 1] and [specific achievement 2] — which together [quantified business impact]. I've also researched the market, and roles at my level in [city/sector] are typically compensated at $X–$Y. Based on this, I'm asking for a [X%] increase, which would bring my salary to $Z. I'm committed to this team and want to grow here — I just want my compensation to reflect what I've delivered and what the market looks like."

After a significant win

"The [project/outcome] we just wrapped is a good moment to revisit my compensation. That project [quantified outcome] and represents exactly the kind of ownership I've taken on since joining. I'd like to discuss an increase. I've done the market research and I believe $X is the right number — can we talk through what that path looks like?"

In response to 'budget is frozen'

"I hear you on the timing. Can we agree on what the target looks like and set a specific date to revisit — say, [date 90 days out]? I want to make sure I have a clear path rather than an open-ended delay. If we can't do cash right now, I'd also be open to discussing [equity / extra PTO / remote flexibility] as a bridge."

What NOT to say when negotiating a raise

"I need more money because of inflation / rent"

Your personal expenses aren't the employer's problem. Frame it around your value and market data.

"Everyone else on the team earns more"

Salary comparison among colleagues is risky and often inaccurate. Use market data instead.

"I've been here X years and deserve a raise"

Tenure alone isn't a raise argument. Impact is.

"Just do your best"

Vague asks get vague answers. Always state a specific number.

"If I don't get a raise, I'll leave" (as a bluff)

Only say this if you mean it. Empty threats destroy trust and rarely work.

Apologising for asking

"Sorry to bring this up..." signals that the ask isn't legitimate. Don't apologise for advocating for your own value.

FAQ

When is the best time to ask for a raise?

The highest-leverage moments are: (1) after a significant win or project delivery, (2) during your annual review cycle — but before the cycle closes, not after decisions are made, (3) after you receive a competing offer, (4) after your role expands significantly without a title or comp change. The worst time is during company cost-cutting, immediately after a poor quarter, or before you've been in role long enough to have demonstrated impact.

How much of a raise should I ask for?

For an annual cost-of-living adjustment: 3–5%. For a merit increase based on performance: 8–15%. For a significant promotion or scope expansion: 15–25%. For an off-cycle raise in response to a competing offer: whatever gets you to market rate. Research comparable roles on Glassdoor, Levels.fyi (tech), LinkedIn Salary, or your industry's salary surveys — and ask for the top of the market range for your level and location.

What do I do if my manager says no to a raise?

Ask what would need to be true for a yes: 'What would I need to achieve, or what timeline are we working toward, for a compensation adjustment to be possible?' Get specifics. Then follow up in writing to confirm what was agreed. If no path is provided and you're at market or above, it may signal a ceiling — at which point exploring external options is a legitimate next step.

Should I show my manager a competing offer?

Only if you're genuinely willing to leave. Showing a competing offer you won't accept damages trust and often backfires. If you have a real offer and want to stay, share it directly: 'I have an offer for $X from [company]. I prefer to stay here and grow with this team — is there a path to getting closer to market rate?' This is honest, professional, and creates a real decision point.

Practice the conversation before you have it.

Zari's salary negotiation coach runs live simulations of the raise conversation — so you walk in with a script, not a script you're hoping to remember.

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